OMG!! I could have written this same post!!! My daughter is 5 1/2, in kindergarten, and STILL having accidents. This has been going on for a couple of years now and I have tried everything I can think of and nothing has worked. I am at my wits end! I just came back from having to buy her a few pairs of pants and take them to her at school, because by 12:00 she already had TWO accidents and had no more spare clothes (the Walmart was closer to work than having to go all the way home). That's not the first time I've had to do that. I've had her to the ped about this several times, there's been urine tests, blood tests, vistis to a urologist, more urine tests, ultrasounds...nothing. I've taken away her favorite toys and not return them until she can stay dry for a whole day. Favorite activities get halted when she pees herself. We've tried bribing--Our latest thing is getting a dog at the end of a full dry month. Every time she pees herself, it starts all over from a month from her dry day. It's getting so when I pick her up from school, her friends can't wait to tell me that she peed herself again. We've been throught the whole, "you can stop what you're doing and go back to it" talks, over and over. Sometimes it doesn't even phase her, but sometimes it does, because she'll pull her shirt down over her butt so no one sees that she peed. The doctor really didn't have any suggestions other than remind her every 2 hours to go and that she'll "grow out of it." Well, her teachers at school have other things to worry about than reminding her to go to the bathroom every 2 hours. It was different when she was in pre-k, because they were able to work with her more, and she had been in the same daycare since she was a baby, so they were used to it. But now in kindy, it's more of working atmosphere than just daycare, and they're a lot busier. Plus, first grade will be here before I know it, and I can't see this still going on at that point. When she first started kindy, it was a new school, but she was very excited about being there, and she went the first 2 months without a single accident. Now, she's back to her old tricks with having accidents almost every day, sometimes twice a day!
I'm at my wits' end!!
Sorry for this vent, but I saw this post and had to share my story too. Any suggestions that haven't been mentioned?
Thanks for listening!!
Lauren's Mom