Doula - New Port Richey,FL

Updated on April 16, 2013
D.A. asks from Tampa, FL
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Are Doulas used by moms in this area. I am a licensed massage therapy and have decided that my career should "curve" towards doula and post doula work. And I am thinking how important it is to have a post doula baby sit a newborn when the parents take that GIANT step of leaving the baby with someone for the very first time. Thoughts? D.

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Oh my. I sure did a poor job in the wording of my very first ever post! A doula is nice if you are able. Always ask as she may have a sliding scale for those in need. And doula and post doula are both used by women who don't have family available. Or what happens after the first 2 weeks home and everyone else flies back home, husband is at work, and there you are with a 'tear' the size of a ...well very serious. You are doing a soak and the beautiful 'on demand' baby starts crying? You have had limited sleep and it is only 9:00 a.m. and YOU are hungry too. What i just described is what my daughter faced. It was awful for her. As for baby sitting, you make a good point. But i would be very happy to baby sit for what would be normally charged by your friend's daughter. (if she is charging) I do need to add; I DID NOT LEAVE THE HOUSE FOR THE FIRST MONTH OF MY DAUGHTERS BIRTH AND THEN WHEN I FINALLY DID, NO ONE WAS ALLOWED TO HOLD TO TOUCH HER. I FINALLY DID LET MY GRANDMOTHER HOLD HER. YES i was overly protective. love to all. would love to hear from you all again.

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I.G.

answers from Seattle on

I considered using a birth doula, but the cost was prohibitive for us. I can see how birth doulas can have a really positive role for a woman in labor.

Post-Partum Doula, I don't know... I honestly would never consider leaving my newborn with anybody and I don't know how leaving a baby with a Doula would be any different than leaving her with any other sitter. I guess I could see how a single mom, or one whose husband isn't around could use a PP-Doula to catch a break and take a shower during those first days.

This may just be me being weird, but when I first had my baby, I did NOT want any "help" with her. I loved holding and taking care of her and had a hard time even giving her to my DH while I showered. When we were first ready to go out without her she was 7 months old and stayed with my mom... no need paying a PP-doula for that.
A housekeeper who cleans, does the dishes and the laundry now that I think would be useful...

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A.C.

answers from Springfield on

I would not hire someone to watch my other children while I'm in the hospital having another child. That's what my family and friends are for. I currently have a doula right now and her main job is to support me emotionally especially when it comes time to have my baby.

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A.C.

answers from Columbus on

Postpartum doulas do not babysit kids, just fyi. They provide postpartum support for moms--helping with meals, some light cleaning, answering questions about baby care, teaching soothing techniques for baby & mom, etc.

Check out DONA and get certified through their program (http://www.dona.org/). Contact your local midwives group and see if you can make contacts w/ local doulas (most doulas apprentice with an experience doula for quite a while).

Most of the doulas I've seen offer a "hardship" rate, or whatever, if the $ is problem for the family. But if you make payments, it's really not that expensive (and most of the ones we interview were willing to take payments).

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D.K.

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DH and I had a post partum doula for the first two weeks after DS was born. We were completely inexperienced with babies and I thought is was a great help. Although 3 adults staring at a newborn does get a little boring sometimes and she did run out of things to do. We absolutely left DS with her to get out of the house for a few hours. After 2 weeks, my mom (who lived 3000 miles away at the time) came for 2 weeks and DH went back to work. Then MIL came for a few days but she is 80 and came to see the baby, not really to 'help' (completely understandable). By 4 weeks, we kind of felt like we had the hang of it - I went back to work PT, DH stayed home PT.

I would NOT ask my friends to take care of a newborn. And some of us do not have family down the street who can just drop everything else in their lives.

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G.S.

answers from Sarasota on

I currently live in new port Richey Florida and I NEED a doula if you are still in the area or know anyone please let me know. I'm looking to do a home water birth because there seems to be only hospitals near by.PLEASE HELP ME!!!

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