Pregnancy Symtoms

Updated on September 02, 2008
M.T. asks from Bridgewater, MA
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I just found out last week that I am expecting. I however do not seem to have very many "pregnancy symtoms". I'm not very tired as I was with my daughter and I just don't really feel "pregnant". A little background on me I've had 2 miscarriages after my daughter who was born in 2007. I'm not sure if it's my mind not wanted to feel pregnant for fear of losing another one or is this just common that not all the time will I have a pregnancy feeling? Has anyone else ever felt this way and had a healthy baby? Currently I am only 6 weeks pg.

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D.M.

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I can only say that my second pregnancy was a lot easier than my first. I wasn't half as tired as I was w/ my first one. I didn't get that nauseaous either. I didn't have to take any extra medications and do blood work every 4-5 days and I didn't need any daily progesterone shots, or extra iron. I guess every pregnancy is different. I work with a lot of women my age and someone is always having a baby at work. I always compared "notes" with someone. Like I was always extemely hot with both of my pregnancies, but some women said they never experienced that. I just thought everyone was hot the whole time they were pregnant. Each person is different and each pregnancy is different, because it is not the same baby. Good luck!!!

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H.N.

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I think it's normal for some people. I have a six month old and was trying to get pregnant using the IUI method. It took me five try's before I got pregnant and when the fifth one took I didn't believe it because I didn't feel any different until I started showing. Good luck.

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R.K.

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Hi M.. With my first son I didn't have symptoms at all infact I never felt better but with my second I was soooo sick and achey. It was terrible. Every pregnancy is different but if you are concerned about it talk to your ob

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K.A.

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Hey M.-
I had 2 miscarriages also after having my son 3.5 years ago. I just gave birth 2 weeks ago to a very healthy baby girl. My OB told me that for some reason it is very common for miscarriages to come in 2's.

Make sure you inform your Dr that you are pregnant. they had me come in weekly for blood work to make sure my hormone levels were rising. It takes the guess work out of the waiting game as well as helps them determine if you need a shot of hormones to help the pregnancy along. Good luck!!

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A.K.

answers from Boston on

Hello,
I have 1 child. Her name is Brianna and she is 5 months old. I found out I was pregnant at 9 weeks. I did not have any symtoms until I was showing around 5 months/20 weeks. If I did not plan the pregnancy I would never had known I was pregnant. I never got sick, tired, or even gained much weight. My baby is very healthy. I am sure everything will be fine and maybe look on the bright side about not having symtoms.
Good Luck.
Angie
Taunton

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J.H.

answers from Hartford on

Oh yeah I felt the same way...lol. I didn't even *know* I was pregnant until I was three months along! (I never had regular periods, so I couldn't go by that, and I had needed help getting pregnant with my son, so I didn't think that I would be able to get pregnant on my own.)
Anyway, one morning I woke up, and the sight of a can of Pringles on my counter sent me running to the bathroom sick. I thought "Could I be...?" because that's how I had felt when I was pregnant with my son, so I went out and got a pregnancy test. When it turned out it was positive, I figured I was probably somewhere between two and four weeks along, but because I didn't have a "cycle" to determine a date from, they did an ultrasound right away to find out where I was. I was TWELVE weeks!
Anyway, she turned out to be perfectly healthy. I had no problems with the pregnancy or birth, and she's now a very energetic, spunky two year old.

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M.M.

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Don't panic! I know that's easier said than done, given your past experiences...but really, don't panic just yet. Every pregnancy is different the same way every baby is different. Maybe you should consider yourself lucky that you're not feeling that bad! As I recall, early pregnancy felt like a serious flu on top of PMS! Ha! Have you seen your doctor yet? Always make sure to voice your concerns to your doctor/midwife. If for no other reason than a little assurance that everything is fine, which I'm sure it is.

I was VERY tired in my early pregnancy, but other than that, had little/no other symptoms! I HOPE to repeat that with my next, but I don't know if I'll get that lucky!

D.B.

answers from Boston on

Of course you are nervous,given what you've been through. And many people tend to console women with lots of morning sickness by saying, "Oh that's the sign of a healthy baby - the sicker the better!" All of which makes those with NO symptoms feel like there's something wrong.

Every pregnancy is different - I didn't have one single symptom during my pregnancy, not even weight gain or fatigue, until pretty late in the game. My baby was a healthy, full term, 7 lb 7 oz cutie who turned out to be a track star and just left for college on a running scholarship!

Definitely tell your doctor about your concerns and be sure you are taken seriously, but try really hard not to be upset unless you are given a medical reason to worry.

Good luck!

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J.B.

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CONGRATS!! When I found out I was pregnant, I was 6 weeks along as well. I didn't feel much of anything...but then I did. I don't know if it was just in my mind but I did start to feel tired and I definitly started to feel more nauseous shortly after I found out. I had no appetite. Now, I am 31 weeks along and this entire time I have been pretty lucky and haven't felt much other than my growing belly. You will be fine. I look at each passing day as a blessing...I feel her moving all of the time and even though it can be a bit much at times...I'm grateful for the assurance that she's in there and OK. I'm sure you will start "feeling pregnant" very soon and even if you don't...think of yourself as one of the lucky ones rather that worrying!! I know with having 2 miscarriages it's hard not, but just BELIEVE that this baby is coming and will arrive good and healthy!! Good luck!!

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C.D.

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M.,
I'm currently 28 weeks pregnant with my first child. I must be having the most boring pregnancy ever, b/c I don't "feel pregnant" either. I had no morning sickness, I wasn't tired, I've had no food cravings or aversions (just a few hormonal episodes!). If my belly wasn't getting bigger, I wouldn't think I was pregnant. I just had my 28 week appointment yesterday and according to my doctor everything is "perfect". My weights good, blood pressure's good, baby's hearbeat and size is good. So, it does happen, enjoy it and let everyone else be jealous that you're having it so easy. I am!

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A.L.

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M., if it is any comfort, I didn't feel ANYTHING until 9 weeks with my second (current) pregnancy. And what a relief ... the rest of the pregnancy has been healthy but tough. As hard as it is when you're feeling worried, try to think of this as a bit of respite. Chasing your little one around while pregnant presents a whole new set of challenges. Hope you have an easy and healthy one!

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A.M.

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I didn't feel pregnant, except a little tired, pretty much my whole pregnancy. I wanted some sign that it was really happening, so I was happy when I could feel the baby moving around. try not to worry - worrying is probably not good for the pregnancy. just take a pregnancy test if you're wondering whether it is still true, or talk to your doctor. good luck.

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A.G.

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yes every pregnancy is differrent.. WIth my first in the begining i was so TIRED all the time then later on smells got me and in my third trimester broccolli tased funny. Withe my second i tossed my cookies almost everytime i ate especially towrads the end. with my third i was achy towards the end. with my fourth i was tired alot but that was it. until the end when smells got me. All are healthy kids now.Oh and the funny thing is while i nursed the last smells stil got me..

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K.B.

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HI M., with my first pregnancy I knew immediately that something was up, I had every single symptom and I was only about 3 weeks along. I am 7 months into my second pregnancy now, and I probably would never have known I was pregnant until my stomach started to grow! I went to my midwife for a reg check up after having some strange periods and SURPRISE, two months pregnant. I hardly believed it, it was nothing like the first time. THey say every pregnancy's different, and you are still very early, I'm sure things will start to happen soon enough, but if not just enjoy being comfortable this time around!

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P.S.

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Hi M.,

I read about your situation and felt compelled to respond. I'm 36 years old and had two miscarriages before giving birth to my beautiful daughter, Olivia Sofia. She is currently in my arms at 20 days as I write this...

Anyway, when I was pregnant with her I was always nervous and always, always questioned my symptoms. For both of my miscarriages, I never bled nor did I have any "obvious" symptoms of miscarriage until I got ultrasounds and it was determined that the fetus had no heart beat. At one point at around 8 weeks I was ultra nervous because I didn't feel pregnant and at other times I did, but despite this, I did give birth to a healthy baby. I don't know what sort of advice to give you as many people said really stupid and insensitive things to me. Just hope for the best and try to remain positive. It's quite normal for pregnancy symptoms to come and go. People told me not to worry but that advice didn't help one bit, of course you're going to worry--just know that what you're feeling is normal. I hope that that helps. Just keep hoping, praying and dreaming of a healthy baby. I hope that this helps, that and knowing that you're not the only one out there. Having had two miscarriages of my own, I know how isolated and alone you can feel at times...

Good luck with everything & I wish you the best!

Sincerely,

P.

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P.M.

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When I was pregnant with my daughter I felt normal. I knew I was pregnant because we were trying to get pregnant but other than that I wouldn't have had a clue. It could be because of your past miscarriages that you don't want to feel pregant and then suffer another loss. I'ld say you're pretty lucky if you still feel good. I wasn't sick with either of my kids and ws able to keep my normal routine.
I hope all works out with you and that you keep feeling good.

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J.S.

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I feel for you. I had 2 miscarriages during 3 years of infertility treatments. I am now a proud and tired mother of twin 6yr boys. I had no pregnancy symptoms my whole pregnancy. Except the getting fat and eating alot. Very scary the first couple of months. Part of the lack of symptoms could be your busy with your daughter and tired. Hang in there and good luck. Your not alone.

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S.S.

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With my first pregnancy, I didn't really have any "symptoms" until the second trimester. That's when I started throwing up almost every morning and suddenly found some foods repulsive. I remember thinking to myself during the first trimester...hmm, I really don't "feel" and different, but once I got a little baby bump, I started to feel pregnant.
I hope that helps you. And congratulations!

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A.M.

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Hi,
Congrats first of all! When I was pregnant with my daughter the only symptoms of pregnancy I had was heartburn, burping, and a more serious one gestional diabetes. I was very lucky not to have morning sickness because I worked as a tv news director and went to work at 2 am! I hope everything goes well for you and your family. Good luck and enjoy!
-A.

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L.Z.

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Hi M. - It is very common to feel this way, more so than you think. In fact, a friend of mine is going through that now and feels great one day and tired the next, and has had days where she wonders if it's happening, but it definitely is! With my first daughter, I felt that way for the first few weeks and I worried a lot that it wasn't real, but she is 3 and very real now! With my second daughter, I felt a lot more of those first trimester feelings. My dr. told me every pregnancy is different and it's common to feel that way sometimes. My advice would be to just hang in there for a couple more weeks, and once you have your 8-week appt. hopefully some of your fears will be eased. Since you have had two miscarriages, they might even give you an ultrasound sooner, which will further set your mind at ease. I hope all is well - keep us posted!

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L.S.

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Rest assured that it is very possible to have a very healthy pregnancy with no symptoms at the beginning. I have never had early pregnancy symptoms (3 times now). In fact, because I am irregular as well, I did not find out I was pregnant with my first until I was 18 weeks, when I started gaining weight!

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